Decoding ABA Therapy for Autism

A Parent’s Guide to Applied Behavior Analysis for Autism

The world of autism treatment can feel overwhelming, a maze of acronyms and therapies promising varying degrees of success. One acronym that frequently surfaces is ABA: Applied Behavior Analysis. But what exactly is ABA therapy, and is it the right choice for your child? In a recent conversation on the Water Prairie Chronicles podcast, host Tonya Wollum spoke with Lisa Jacovsky, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) and author, to demystify ABA and provide parents with the information they need to navigate this often-complex landscape.  

ABA therapy, at its core, is a scientific approach to understanding and changing behavior. “It’s a form of science that we use to modify the environment so that it affects our behaviors in a positive or negative way,” explains Jacovsky. The goal is to increase positive behaviors that enhance daily living skills – from socializing and communicating to self-care and independent living – while decreasing behaviors that may be harmful or impede progress.  

However, ABA therapy has faced its share of controversy. Jacovsky acknowledges the negative connotations surrounding the therapy, often stemming from misuses of techniques, such as overly forceful approaches or a lack of individualization. “A lot of the negativity comes from the fact that ABA continues to want you to do things that would be more of like your daily living skills but could be hard for you to do,” she explains. She emphasizes the importance of ethical practice, patience, and adapting techniques to meet each child’s unique needs. “It’s trial and error,” she says. “A lot of times if something doesn’t work, I’ll get creative and do something else. Or I’ll get creative and turn around a technique to fit the child rather than do it specifically step by step like you have to do.”  

One common misconception is that ABA therapy is a “cure” for autism. Jacovsky firmly dispels this myth. “It’s not a miracle worker,” she states. “It’s not going to solve autism, make it go away, and it’s not going to fix anything. It takes time and effort and work.” Instead, she emphasizes that ABA therapy aims to help children with autism reach their full potential and live productive lives, recognizing that autism is a different way of learning, not a deficiency.

So, how can parents determine if ABA therapy is right for their child? Jacovsky stresses the importance of thorough research. “Look at the reviews, talk to more than one company, always get a second opinion, and go with what you’re comfortable with,” she advises. She encourages parents to trust their instincts and advocate for their child’s needs. “Just because you get assigned one therapist doesn’t mean you have to stick with them,” she says. “You can voice and say, ‘Hey, I’m not a fan. It’s nothing against her. I just don’t click with her or him. Can I have somebody else?'”

The conversation also touched on the crucial role of family involvement in ABA therapy. Jacovsky explains that early intervention ABA often involves parent training, empowering families to continue the techniques at home. Consistency, both with the therapist and within the family environment, is key to maximizing the benefits of ABA therapy.  

For parents overwhelmed by the prospect of navigating autism treatment, Jacovsky offers a simple yet powerful piece of advice: talk to other families. She recommends joining support groups and online communities, where parents can share experiences, ask questions, and find recommendations for qualified ABA therapists and companies. “That’s how you’re going to know what company is good and what company is not,” she says. “Is go based on their experiences.”  

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to pursue ABA therapy is a personal one. By understanding the principles of ABA, addressing common misconceptions, and seeking guidance from experts and other families, parents can make informed choices that best support their child’s unique needs and help them thrive. As Jacovsky poignantly shares, “The most rewarding thing about being an ABA therapist is seeing an autistic child succeed.” That success, whether it’s a small step or a giant leap, is what makes the journey worthwhile.

Listen to the full interview and learn more about ABA Therapy!

• YouTube: https://youtu.be/emtrT_QNPyI
• Website: https://waterprairie.com/2025/02/05/aba-therapy