Free ADHD Email to New Teacher Template
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How to Introduce Your ADHD Child to a New Teacher Without Sounding Like Excuses

For parents of kids with ADHD starting with a new teacher — the exact email to send in week 1 so your child gets support fast.
- The first 2 weeks are the hardest — new rules, new routines, and behavior spikes that get misread
- You don’t want to be labeled as “that parent,” but you also don’t want the teacher to learn by trial and error
- When you hear “just try harder,” you need a collaborative answer, not a confrontation
- Subject line that gets opened
- Strengths-first intro that builds partnership
- What Works / What to Watch For fill-in sections — just replace [ ]
- Collaborative close you can copy word-for-word
How it works – 3 steps:
- Enter your email — I’ll send the PDF right away
- Replace the [ ] brackets with your child’s info — takes 10 minutes
- Send it in Week 1 and keep a copy for your records
Hi, I’m Tonya Wollum, podcast host, parent to 2 children with disabilities, and Master IEP Coach®. I help mothers of children with invisible disabilities turn school staff into supportive partners. This is the same email structure I teach my 1:1 coaching families for back-to-school.
Want a second set of eyes before you hit send? I offer 1:1 IEP coaching including draft audits and meeting prep. No pressure — start with the template, and if you want help tailoring it, just reply to the email you receive at iepcoach@waterprairie.com.
FAQ:
- Is this legal advice? No. I’m not a lawyer and I don’t give legal advice. This is a parent communication tool. All advocacy decisions are your own.
- Will this label my child? No — it’s strengths-first and focused on what helps learning. You decide how much to share.
- What if my child has an IEP or 504? There’s a line to mention it and attach it. If you don’t have one, just delete that line.
- I missed Week 1 — is it too late? Not at all. Send it this week. Early is best, clear is always helpful.
You’ve got this, and I’m here to help you along the way.
